Question for Bi/Lesbian women

Amy

When did you know that you were bi or lesbian? I think I might be bi because I don’t dislike men, but I feel like I’m growing apart from my boyfriend because we don’t have sex that often and I’m perfectly happy and love him even without it because I feel that we have a strong emotional connection...I’m really confused and don’t know how to figure out who I am without letting him go 🤷🏻‍♀️ Help??