Long story short, my sister with 3 kids just went through a rough patch with her husband a few weeks ago. He left for almost a week and told her he wasn’t sure if he wanted to be with her anymore.

Obviously all of us (my mom, my dad, my youngest sister, myself and my husband) came to the rescue to help with the kids during the time he left - cooking, driving, cleaning, etc while he screwed off for those days. My husband and I spent our whole Saturday afternoon making $60 worth of freezer meals to help my sister throughout the week (not complaining, that’s what family does!)

Fast forward to the Family Day holiday, my sister and her husband reconcile blah blah blah and now I get Snapchat videos of him swimming with the kids. He’s obviously now Father of the Year for going to a swimming lesson 🤦🏼‍♀️, so you can imagine how things are now. Sunshine and rainbows.

Anyways, YESTERDAY. My sister decides to ask my mom if she can watch her 3 kids for a week so they can try to sneak off to Mexico ASAP for a romantic vacation. My mom said no, obviously because my baby is coming any day and she wanted to be available to me. I am due with my first baby in 3 days.

My sister isn’t an Auntie yet (this is her first niece or nephew).... am I being crazy or would you be hurt with your sister if she just decided to try to leave to Mexico and possibly miss being around for your baby? (Also not to mention if they did go away, she would miss her 3 young children meeting their very first cousin for the first time.)

I completely understand and support that she wants to go on a vacation to help rebuild her marriage, but it can’t wait just like 3 weeks?

Just looking to be validated that I have a right to feel hurt.