This is a typical of it goes

The other morning he drove to take the kids to bus stop which is 1 minute drive from our house our kids are 7, 11 and 11. 9:10 came around i knew the kids had to have gotten on the bus already as it gets there at 8:55 am. So I texted hey, everything ok? I wanted to before i went to work...no response waited 5 minutes i texted hello?

He came home at 9:17 am I asked if everything was ok he said idk

i said what were you doing he said IDK

I said i texted you twice, he said my phone is off, I had it in my lap

guess what someone texted him his phone went off while we were standing there

i said huh thought your phone was off he said it vibrates when its off...

Anyways 98% of the time his responses are ya and idk

I am frustrated he says what the hell you want me to say and I am practically begging for communication at this point i tell him this and he gets angry with me....