My baby shower is tomorrow. Invited 60 people. Only 20 RSVPd. And now. Only 8 are coming as the messages all poured in that “sorry but we can’t make it” today. Between food, decorations, and raffles and prizes I spent close to $300. It’s not even that I’m mad, I’m super disappointed and sad that its as if we don’t matter.

Our wedding last year was the same. We had maybe 15 people show up. Granted it was 3 hours away. But his brothers wedding was 3 months later. And they have over 200 people come including family who flew in from out of state.

Our wedding was first. And announcements went out before theirs. Ugh. So hurtful