Should I test first thing tommrow? Please help

Okay so I was suppose to get my period today but no period🤗I haven't tested cause I'm afraid to get a negative but i hoping to test tomorrow.i usually have breast soreness 2 weeks before my af is due but not this month.My nipples are sensitive and breast are tender and I just got these symptoms today not to mention I'm so sleepy. I'm 32cd.my cycles are never the same.one month it'll be 30cd the next month 32cd so it throws me off.ive also had some spotting this month but I had a uti a week before my spotting so I'm really just confused.what do you think this means or what should I do?