First I would like to thank you. Not for being a great dad but for teaching me that blood doesn’t mean a family bond. You have proven yourself to be a typical dead beat dad. Which I can’t even believe I am saying that word because I don’t even consider you my dad.

Secondly, thank you for showing me how to never be to my children. Honestly, I could never just not call or stop by or completely give up on my children.

And last but certainly not least I would like to thank you once again for showing me I don’t need you in my life.

Yep, I’ve said it. I’m 29 years old and done letting the man that is supposed to be a father even cross my mind.

I’m disgusted with you, I was in a bad accident a year and a half ago. You didn’t call to see how I’m doing,you called to get information.

You told me you would call to check on me the next day.. good thing I didn’t hold my breath waiting for that call. How do you even sleep knowing your biological daughter was in trauma center , dead or alive.

You are not a dad, you are not a father, you are not a grandpa. Let me tell you what , you missed out. Not sure how you sleep at night.

Honestly I don’t want anything from you, I don’t need you. But you know, you should really thank my mom for teaching me about life, how to love, how to never give up, how to work and go after my goals, and how to be the mother I am to my kids.

Well thanks for reading. Honestly felt good I’ve held it in for too many years and it’s time I let this stop eating me up.