tips and tricks

okay so i’m pretty sure i’ve never had an orgasm, like sex is okay but i kinda feel like i enjoy it more for the intimacy rather than the feeling, i’ve tried masturbating but it just seems like a lot of work for not a lot of work for not a lot of gain...

i’ve just ordered something from lovehoney so i’m gonna give that a go but i dunno if it’s actually gonna work or be worth it??

everyone says if you’re not sure if you’ve had an orgasm then you definitely haven’t, but i literally have no idea, advice pls?