I hate my daughter?

My child has driven me crazy and Im starting to think about giving her up for adoption. Since shes been able to balance on her legs at a couple of months old she’d climb out of her crib and smear poop EVERYWHERE. This happened repeatedly for 4 years. ( 8 months to 4 years old) Then she would sneak in the refrigerator and cabinets and ALL of the food would be opened, eaten or destroyed! She will still play inside the fridge and put non food items in there. She destroys furniture, clothing and anything you can name. I feel shameful to say but im starting to hate her. Ive taken her to get psychiatric help and they said shes fine, no mental illnesses. Shes now 7 years old and just painted my walls and carpets with red paint, markers and juice. This is just a quarter of things she do basically she sneaks into things and destroy them. I now have depression and dont know what to do

** my method of discipline is Time Out