Gynocologist

My boyfriend comes from a completely different background than I do. He was raised extremely conservative while I was raised to see the body and its functions as a normal part of life. I compromised on a few things such as not watching movies with sex scenes or watching porn, he believes both of those are cheating, another thing I agreed to was not seeing a Male gyno. But over the past 5-6 months I would have cramping in my ovary/uterus area without being on my period. It wasn't everyday or super painful so I ignored it until last week. My boyfriend and I were having sex and everything was fine the first few minutes but one of the times he went back in it felt like I had been punched. I thought it might have been the position so we tried another one and it still hurt so we stopped and the pain went away in about 5-10 minutes. The next day I felt the pain again but brushed it off, since then I have felt it every day and it is getting worse, yesterday the pain brought me to the ground and I was crying for 30 minutes. I have also been extremely tired but unable to sleep for more than 2 hours, I get lightheaded often, and have trouble with circulation. I am using birth control (aviane) for the past 2 weeks, I was on sprintec( 2 months) but I had side effects so I stopped. I want to see a gyno but the closest female gyno is 3 hours away and is not accepting new patients. Should I go behind my boyfriend's back and see a male gyno in town or just wait to see if the pain goes away.