I cant handle this much crazy!!!

Kyla

I left my abuser February 20th of this year. I am 29 weeks pregnant, we have a one year old son between each other and I have 4 other children that are from past relationship. I left because he was controlling, mentally and emotionally abusive. He constantly accused me of being unfaithful and talking to other men which he never had proof of because it never happened. Since I have left he started constantly harrasing me over the phone, threatening me with cops, and CPS going from angry to suicidal to I'm sorry to angry again so I finally took the steps and got a protection order which the judge granted in my favor and granted me full custody (he has a long history of domestic violence in his past) he was only allowed to contact me about visitations with our son and there is no set schedule. I have to agree with it or it's a no go basically. Well he broke the temporary protection order trying to do 3rd party communication and now with this 90 day protection order we weren't even into day 2 and he broke it again harrasing me and badgering me about my other children whom he has no rights to. I warned him to stop saying he could text me about seeing our son but to stop texting me about everything else or I will report him. He kept going this time DEMANDING I let him speak to the other children. So I called the police. Within minutes he turned my phone off so the police couldn't call me back. So the next day I went in and activated my phone on my own account and within an hour of getting it working again he reported my phone stolen and it got shut off again, I went and had to buy a whole new phone. Not thinking he also cut off any way to get ahold of me about seeing our son. Now he is harrasing my pastor and my mother wanting my new number saying he has the right to have my new number so he can talk to me about visitations.... He knows my email but is harrasing others now. I refuse to give him my number. If he wants to get ahold of me he can email me and until I know where he is living and working and that he is stable I am not letting our son go with him. Is that wrong of me? He also lied on his FB and said he got arrested but the police never found him, he is basically on the run now. Why in the world would I agree to let our helpless 1 year old go with him... He did this to himself. I could understand him not wanting to pay for my phone that's why I went and activated it somewhere else but reporting it stolen. Now he's just being spiteful because he's loosing his power over me. He doesn't even care I'm pregnant, he only cares about revenge and all I am doing is trying to protect myself. It is unbelievable how childish and selfish he is.

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