Nov baby due on my father in laws birthday 🎈 I had a chemical last Nov and I'm not allowing myself or husband to get excited about this pregnancy just yet. How do I stop stressing that it's not going to come to anything?!

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Yes, i agree with Autumn. There's two ways of looking at this...(and believe me, I know one is a lot easier to do than the other!!) not allow yourself to get excited and just spend the next 4 weeks worrying and praying that everything is OK and works out fine, and literally having this on your mind 24/7. Or allowing yourself to feel excited and happy about it, and not let the anxiety get to you.
It's so easy for other people to sit here and say 'you just need to relax and not worry so much' - yeah thanks, because you must be going through the same thing! 🙄  - but at the end of the day, it's sort of true. There's nothing we can do about it unfortunately; I'm in the same boat, I had a MC in Jan with my first pregnancy, and now I'm absolutely terrified to go through the same thing again. AF is due in 6 days, but I don't want to test until then because I know I'll just get myself so worked up if I test now...I'll end up testing every single day this week!
Good luck to you, I have everything crossed that your pregnancy will be successful! 😊

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I also had a chemical miscarriage in November. The minute I found out I was pregnant again I never allowed myself to go into that negative place and I think it’s really helped. Just staying positive and excited. 💕

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I had an ectopic pregnancy about a year ago, found out I was pregnant couple weeks ago, but I’m not letting the fear of another loss keep me from getting excited form this little blessing. GET excited! Enjoy it ! ❤️

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I need that special stop
Stressing magic too if anyone had it, had a missed miscarriage end of Nov too last year, so scared this time around ! 😢😢😢

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I had a chemical miscarriage in December :( sucks and sucks when you get another positive and you dont want to get too excited! Praying for a healthy and full term baby!

Nov baby due on my father in laws birthday 🎈 I had a chemical last Nov and I'm not allowing myself or husband to get excited about this pregnancy just yet. How do I stop stressing that it's not going to come to anything?!

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