I think me n my SO are done.. we have a angel in heaven a 10 month old girl and one on the way but he doesn’t care he is selfish and hateful. I’m just a built in maid/nanny to him. For the last couple months we have been drifting apart we’ll move like him pulling away. He had a dui from years ago before we met and it caught up to him well he is in sobriety court n his license was taken away. Well he needed me to drive him everywhere to court to aa to meetings appts etc... he got a restricted license back this weekend and since then his attitude towards me has changed drastically. A couple weeks ago he ran our van to the ground now the transmission is done, then a week later he buys a truck with my income tax money and when we go get it I tell him the back isn’t a full cab and it will be hard as hell to get a car seat in there and we not only have 1 but soon there will be 2 car seats. He doesn’t care it was sparkly n new he wanted it and got it. Then not even a week later he totals our trailblazer... so I’m stuck without a vehicle now.. he says to me the other day now that you dont have to drive me everywhere now you can keep the house cleaner and the laundry done. Yes I am a sahm but damn it I take care of our daughter clean the house cook laundry take care of the 2 dogs and 4 cats but I do nothing. He doesn’t appreciate me or anything I do for him or our family. He is selfish. I can’t live like this anymore it is killing me... sorry about the rant I’m just heartbroken