I was dating a guy for two years, and for 1.5 of those years he emotionally/mentally abused me. He broke up w me over summer, something he did a lot, but tried manipulating me back into dating him when I told him I didn’t want him back in my life. He tormented me for two months before I blocked him, and his abuse still affects me in very subtle ways almost daily. We had a mutual friend who I told about what he did to me and why we broke up, and I thought she understood that? He?? Abused??? Me??? I thought we were on the same page about him being a piece of shit. But today on my ride home I saw them in the parking lot talking like buddies??? Not only that in itself pissed me off, but he also spread lies, ones that would be very revealing, and it makes me feel like he told her lies and she believed it. And I don’t think it’s coincidental that this friend and I haven’t been talking nearly as much lately. What the fuck do I do??