S0 i'm 36 and trying for baby number 3 about 4 months now. We have 2 healthy boys age 11 and 4 and don't feel quite complete yet. I didn't have gd with baby 1 but did with baby 2. It was controlled through diet. After, i gained a bunch of weight but have lost about 45 lbs. Im now 5'1 and 107 lbs. I did all the things i have read about to increase my chances of not getting it again... lost the weight, changed my diet, daily yoga, waited a bunch of time in between pregnancies. My ob basically told me to be grateful for the 2 healthy kids i have that i'm too old for another pregnancy, and i will certainly have gd again. Pretty much telling me that my age and previous gd i will not have a healthy pregnancy if it does happen and i'm freaking out now. Yes i want another baby but my husband( 45yo) DESPERATELY wants another. Im about to give up if it didn't happen this month. (2 week wait). Any of you have gd with one pregnancy but not the next? Did your obs make you feel too old and selfish to conceive over 35?