Who do I choose?

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Girls,
I'm having a serious problem. I have 2 guys asking for my hand in marriage. The first guy is 13 years older than me. The second is 3. I like the older one because he's more mature. The other is more handsome but he's just like a little boy to me really I don't feel a connection with him. I don't know what my family will think about the other because he's older. Should I marry the younger to please my family or the older for my happiness?

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Personally, I'd choose neither because if you're having a hard time deciding then that shows you don't actually love either. You wouldn't be making a post like this if you felt strongly for one or the other. Keep looking and find the right one.

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You shouldnt be getting married at all if you are trying to decide between 2 people.

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Marry the one you love.  Not because one is more handsome or one is more mature.

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I'm assuming you're not in serious relationships with the both of them? Why not slow it down a bit and try really dating the one you want to be with, and breaking it off w the other guy. Don't marry someone you barely know.

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You should choose who will make you happy...regardless of what anyone else thinks its your happiness not theirs....age shouldn't matter its just a number...good luck!!!

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From my point of view it's hard to say because I've always dated. However, at the end of the day I believe all women want the same thing; a good man. I've always been one to put sense of humor before looks, and now that I'm older that applies even more. Looks fade, but a genuinely good guy does not. I lucked out that my boyfriend (and father of my upcoming baby!) is incredibly attractive to me, however, he's such a ridiculously good guy that it wouldn't matter at all. Figure out who you're happier being around. :) Good luck!

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They were a little concerned at first but after they met him and found out how good he treated me they love him too. My parents absolutely HATED my ex.. Didn't even want to look at him. My current boyfriend has been invited on vacation with my family and any time we have a family get together my parents always make sure to invite him.

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You need to choose who you have a better connection with. It's about personality not looks.

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chose the one that makes you happy as long as your married I'm sure your parents don't mind

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Is this a serious question? 
Your family won't have to live with him, they wont have to spend all their time with him.

Do what makes you happy. Your family should only want you to be happy regardless of the persons age.

Who do I choose?

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