My first child- I had when I was 21. I got pregnant by my boyfriend at the time who was a douchebag. But of course, I thought it would never happen to me. I left him shortly after my son was born because he cheated, no trust, etc. Now I have a man who is everything I could ever ask for, he's a perfect dad figure to my son, a faithful, loving man, he's 31 and has no kids and wants one badly. We've had no luck so far. It's just frustrating that when you're not trying and not ready, it happens. Then when you really want it and you're so ready- it doesn't happen. 😔