I know there is no right or wrong way to feel. Based on how my fiance has reacted or I should say, how he didn't react, makes me wonder if I'm overreacting. My rule has always been no electronics at the table during meals, no matter what. We don't get a lot of time together on top of it being hard to get him to leave his phone alone for at least an hour or two. Please let it be noted that I do trust him; I never go through his phone and such because I don't feel the need. Tonight we ate while he scrolled through his phone. After I finished eating as I was clearing my spot I reminded him that I've asked that there be no electronics at the table. He then proceeded to tell me what he was doing. I reiterated the rule trying to get my point across as this was not the first nor second conversation about this. (He usually will put his phone away after I remind him.) He then continued to give me excuses. (Nothing that couldn't wait until after family meal time.) I chose to walk away and remove myself from the situation because I wasn't trying to argue and I felt like the conversation was going no where. He went all evening without saying a word to me. Went to bed without a kiss, hug, cuddles, or "I love you". I waited a bit to see if he would talk to me or anything. Finally, I woke him up asking if he was really going to sleep without saying anything. Needless to say he acted like he had no idea why I was upset and said "I don't know what you want from me."

I thought I made it pretty clear what I wanted and its not a new thing. I'm very upset! I cried deeply over how he made me feel. Mostly I feel disrespected.