i lost my virginity to my boyfriend two days ago, it didn’t really hurt too bad at all, just a little uncomfortable but it also didn’t last long. YESTERDAY we decided to go again, this time it was very uncomfortable and sorta painful i guess, but neither times gave me any pleasure. i’m not sure if it’s because it’s still new to me, maybe i have to get used to it for a second? idk. i just wanted to see if this is normal? if this will get better in the future? is there anything i can do to get pleasure out of it?