Okay so I’m going to try my best to be brief on this, but I just want other females opinions and how they would handle this. First- let’s start with a brief background. My boyfriend used to work at this dog kennel years ago, and gained a friend that is a female. They have been friends for a long time. Now- my boyfriend and I work together at a different dog kennel, which is how we met. Before we started dating tho, he hired his friend to come work with us. I noticed a lot, and so did our other co workers, the different attention she would get bc they were friends outside of work. They flirted a lot. She ended up getting another job after about 6-8 months later and moving out of state to go live with h e r boyfriend. Fast forward to a little while after we started dating- we were in his car and she somehow became the subject and he had told me that at one point they did talk like they were more than friends but decided that they didn’t want to be more than friends bc they are better as friends than if they were in a relationship. So that obviously caught my attention. Let me just say too, that I am n o t an extremely jealous person. I don’t want to be. Fast forwarding to now- I learned that they talk on the phone almost weekly still. Just as friends. She is now moved back in town and left her boyfriend. I can’t help but to feel kind of worried. Or like he wishes it was her instead of me. I hate feeling this insecure. Just bc they decided that they shouldn’t date, doesn’t mean the feelings didn’t just disappear! So I just need another women’s opinion.