Me and my fiancé met in a way that's very controversial. I was friends with his ex about 3 years ago while she was dating him. That's when we first met. I stopped being that girls friend after less than a year because she was what I'd call, emotionally abusive. if I didn't reply to her immediately she would flip out at me and tell me I was a terrible person. If I spent time with anyone but her she'd tell me I don't deserve friends and that I deserve to be alone. After a while my mental health got so bad I had to leave the friendship. Fast forward 2 years I bumped into my now fiancé on tinder, so I swiped right knowing he was one of the nicest people I've ever met. Much to my surprise he swiped right too and we connected again, we got close very fast and I quickly realised he was the one. However I get reminded by people how we first met is 'gross' and wrong on my part. I get why people would see it that way but nothing has ever felt so right in my life, but it's hard to deal with when people tell me it's wrong for me to be happy