Almost 40. Contemplating a 3rd

I'm about to hit the BIG 40. In May

I have 2 healthy kids. One is almost 12 and the other just hit 7. Hubby would love to have another. I'm scared s*$#less. Because of age and all the risks. Birth defects, MY health...etc.

I need some input. Good or bad. I'll take it all.😉