Is dad right or wrong?

Alexa • First time mom of a beautiful little girl♡ Emma

Baby is 1month and 13 days old.

Ever since she was born, dad has never changed a diaper, washed her, cleaned her or changed her. He has never done anything apart from carrying her. He hardly spoke to her when I was pregnant. I always had to tell him and he answered me "later" or "tomorrow" or "when she kicks", and in the end he never did. He said he did not know how to talk or what to tell him, and I understood.

When she was born, it was the same. He did not speak to her. After a few days, I told him he had to do it so the baby would be able to recognize him and develop better, he did it and now continues. but I can not get him to do anything else. neither change her nor bathe her or anything. He asks me why do I want him to do it or that he is the one who is going to go out and buy everything necessary , maybe clean and things that require strength and that i had to worry only about the baby.

I do not know what to do. I feel like he doesn't love her.