Husband not on board

Hey guys, I’m 30 weeks with baby number three and struggling immensely with what going on and want to know if there’s anyone else experiencing the same thing as me, this baby was a surprise our son almost 7 and daughter about to turn five my husband only wanted two children and was very set on that, when we found out we were pregnant he was devasted, went fully depressed and it’s still on board, this isn’t something he wants he would never of asked me to get an abortion but still not on board at all.

He doesn’t know how he feels or how to make it better, and when I asked if he was going to bail at the time of labour he couldn’t answer me. I don’t know what I will do.

I’m struggling not coping with this unknown, he is an amazing father to our kids and is an amazing person but the last 7 months has been a real struggle to say the least. I don’t know where I stand or what I should do..