I’m sorry if this is long. So my fiancé and I got engaged 12/08/2018 and his friend got engaged about a year before us and asked my FH to be in his wedding and my FH said yes so when we got engaged he had already had his guys picked out and I had my girls picked out then he decided he wanted this friend to be in his wedding since he asked him to be in his we will call his friend bob... well bob agreed to be in his wedding and I had to find another girl so I asked his Fiancé who was a friend of mine.. and she said yes now Mind you there where no pressure of them to say yes well we start getting into planning our wedding and stuff months later when I already have my girls dresses picked out and such she decided to drop out. She told me she can’t afford it because of her planning for her wedding and prior to that they told us that her mom and dad is paying for their whole wedding so my fiancé said then if she’s dropping out we will have to drop bob our Because we are not having an odd number and he said if she can’t afford to be in the wedding how is bob if they are getting married... so he dropped out of theirs due to us not being able to afford it due to us getting married a month after them witch our wedding wasn’t supposed to be until 2020 but we had to move the wedding up due to my FH gram being sick with Liver failure and she flipped out on me blaming me for kicking my FH out of their wedding that it wasn’t my FH decision that I made it for him then blocked me and bob block me but my FH is still talking him I’m upset that this big fight broke out my FH told them that none of this was my decision that it was the both of ours and I’m still getting fingers pointed at me am I in the wrong or is she or are we both how can I fix this