My boyfriend always asks me what i like and what feels good to me when we are talking about sex. But when we actually have sex and i try to point to where he needs to go (oral) he has said “ill lick where i wanna lick.” but he’s licking my hole too much and i tell him to go to my clit bc that is the ONLY way i know how to cum. He has never made me cum and he says he wants to make me cum and that he will make me one day. I just think it’s his ego in the way bc he’s been having sex since he was 16 with idk how many partners (10+) and he’s 23 now so he thinks what he has been doing for other girls works for me, no. I’m 19 and he is my third sex partner and everything else is amazing except i haven’t came during sex. Truth is i have never came during sex. When I try to rub my clit in certain positions he tells me to move my hand and his body kind of gets in the way and i can’t stimulate it the way it needs to be. i really don’t know if his past partners lied about cumming or not but he needs to set his pride aside if he actually cares about my pleasure.