Would you allow girls from your husband past in your life ??

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These girls he’s either had sex with or tried keep popping up in our life’s not cause of him but cause his sisters is friends with them . There coming to my baby shower and I’m flipping out . He said it’s no big deal but I see it being a big deal cause that’s just disrespectful and they won’t ever see my kid period !!!!!

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That's your baby shower and if you don't want them there guess what they're not allowed I don't care what anybody says and I wouldn't accept it on any level I wonder if he would accept men being in your life that you used to have relations with bet he wouldn't

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Invite your ex 😂😂 tell him look at the man that had you before him while celebrating a baby

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I don't think it's a big deal, 
He is your husband and by that I'm assuming his faithful to you and honest.
Either man or woman can be friends with an ex without wanting to bed them or be inappropriate.

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Straight up - NO 🤷🏻‍♀️ no ex from either of your pasts should be involved 🤔

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I would not be ok with that. Friend or not with the sister. It's one thing to be friends with the sister but what is the real reason for the exs coming to your shower? Sounds like some arrangements need to be made or that shit would be cancelled 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

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No

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One of my best friends is my ex. My husband is good friends with him too. As long as there is trust and respect, I don’t think being friends is deal.  But I understand it being weird that she’s coming to your baby shower when you don’t have any sort of relationship with her.

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Why were they invited?? Your shower, your rules.

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I'm actually friends with one of my husbands ex's. He doesn't speak to her much. She ended up coming to our wedding because she was a plus one and i had no idea who she was. We became friends after that. May be weird 🤷 but I guess it depends on who it is with me because I definitely don't like some of his ex's. I'm just weird I guess. Lol

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HELL NO. That is beyond disrespectful and yes it is a big effing deal. It’s your shower and you have every right to say no to them coming. Are these people mental? I’m angry as hell for you

Would you allow girls from your husband past in your life ??

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