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Ok so I'm in college and have only ever had one boyfriend , lost my virginity to him and only have done things with him , he was basically my first everything as a senior in high school .. It took me a while to realize how big of a jerk he really was and I never listened to friends or family , not even teachers and they told me I was a great person and deserved better but anyway he's gotten worst and I left him for sure .. Now I don't talk to any guys! The ones that have tried talking to me I brush off , a lot has tried but I just don't find them attractive! I feel like I'll be alone forever , now guys that are very much handsome 😍 have freaking girlfriends but don't care about that and still try talking to me I'm honestly not that type of person .. I just feel like I'll never find somebody and I don't have all the confidence people think I should have or they think I do have , they automatically think I'm just one of those girls that hoe around until they get to know me I'm just so chill , laid back and sometimes can blend in with the guys .. Idk how many people thought they would end up doing something with me then realized it just wasn't going to happen , not a lot of good guys are out there and it's like me asking for a handsome faithful funny weird person is asking for waaaaaaaaaay too much

Don't think I'll meet anyone in college either .. I'm majoring in the medical field with that being said everybody there is pretty old and just getting their stuff started!

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I can sympathize with this. I was engaged to someone, and broke it off 3 weeks before the wedding. (I did it- he was a jerk [love can be SO blind!]) We had dated in college. But after we had broken up, I felt very alone and like everyone around me was either married or engaged. I also felt like all the "good guys" were taken. I also felt like all the other girls who had felt the same way, had gotten their happy ending because they had found their soulmate and again, I was alone. 
I hesitate to say this because I hated hearing it...but just wait....it will be worth it. Focus on yourself and what's God's plan is for your life. (I hated hearing that as well)   When your "good guy" shows up in Gods time, it will be PERFECT!! Mine showed up 5 years after my break up. And I'm truly thankful and grateful for how things turned out. It wasn't my plans, but it turned out better than my plans :)

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Don't judge someone by the way they look. Don't you think that maybe it's your fault cause u only want handsome guys

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How long have you been broken up? If it's only been a couple months just give it time. It sounds like your not over him just yet. Or maybe your not over what he did to you. You'll find someone just give it time.

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Lol, right now you are bitter.  It is normal after a break up.  Yes someday you will find a great guy, yes they really do exist.  Right now worry about you and your studies.  When the time is right, the right guy will come along.  When he does, learn from your mistakes and give your friends and families words greater weight then you did last time. 
I have a very dear cousin.  She fell in love with one of the biggest As I know.  There was no telling her she could do better (I think she had it in her head that he was the victim and needed support).  I do not agree with divorce, but I will admit to doing a happy dance when that marriage dissolved.  Consider it a near miss, you wised before you married him.  Good Luck!

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