Phone issues or something more?

I have a iPhone X and I had to recently reset my Apple ID password for 1. Not remembering my last and 2. To enable payment for certain apps that subscription that expired. I’m almost 11 weeks pregnant and stress is a big fear for me right now because of the baby. I went to my settings and it says activation was unsuccessful for both IMessage and FaceTime. To let you know my service is off so I have to use WiFi to use these apps. So I turned both apps on and off and looking it up it says I have to wait up to 24 hours for activation. The father is in another state right now and these apps are a way we communicate with each other. He’s at work but I texted him on both IMessage and on a TextMe app to let him know the situation but no response yet. I’m really worried because I need these apps for us to still be able to communicate and if I have to no other way to contact him idk what I’m going to do 😓.

I also connected it through my MacBook but idk if he got the message from there either. It’s says delivered and we just FaceTimes and talked this morning. No arguments no anything. I just hope he doesn’t think I’m ignoring him when really my phone is all messed up, Please Help!💔