I’m done! No more hope to hold onto!

Je

Je

Feeling like it’s been a year now since my husbands VR and nothing!!! Sooo tired of being disappointed and honestly feeling alone thru this all soooo i stopped tracking or thinking bout any of it since AF arrived 5 dats late last month and crushed me when she arrived. Sooo AF should be here around the 19th and well I’m cool and ready for her. I’m done with being sad and going to accept this VR ain’t working and well i got 3 bAbies (19,17 & 15) so I’ve been blessed.

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St

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We found out literally within 3 days of our 1 year post reversal of our miracle on his way! I had long lost hope, we were just beginning to pursue more of how I could be the cause of the struggle. I was waiting for AF to arrive so I could go in for testing when we got our positive. It is so easy to become weary and done with the whole process. Have y’all done any analysis?

St

Steph • Jun 6, 2019
Yes yes yes...when I was able to kind of let go of it and try not to think about when and if AF was showing up. Just a note we didn’t do an analysis until I was scheduling my check up which was even more depressing because of course he was perfect, over achiever Lololol 😉 Thinking of you, and praying for peace of mind no matter the struggle

Je

Je • Jun 5, 2019
Hi so we had our last analysis back in December 2018 and haven’t bothered checking again. I even stopped tracking for a while and well for some reason decided to come back on here and see what everyone was up too but i had two months were i was 4-5 days late them AF showed and of course i was sad then in April AF started arriving on time so that’s good i don’t have to be disappointed anymore. But March 2019 made a year since VR and i keep seeing people say it takes at least a year or over so a part a me is still faithful because I’d love to get a BFP but keeping open mind it might not happen so I’m not disappointed each month AF shows up.

K

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I feel exactly the same. We are a year and a half after and most recent SA was less than IM so not good at all. I also have had bad FSH levels suggesting premature ovarian failure. We have no children. I feel very sad and surrounded by people having babies. It's so heart breaking.

Je

Je • Jun 5, 2019
I feel the same way everyone i know got pregnant, had their babies and even pregnant now some who even started trying when we had our VR and well God bless them they are expecting and carrying but nothing here yet soooo yea i get the lonely sad and frustrated feeling of being hopeless. Just praying God will do it 🙏🏽