A guy friend I’ve had since college came home and we hooked up. When he left, we talked 24/7 and he sent me flowers. He told everyone about me. He was going soooo fast and I wanted to take it slow. The day I wanted to commit was the day he said we should just stay friends. I was devastated. These past few weeks have been HARD. Yesterday we had a really good convo. However, one of his responses was “Hey I’m gonna be honest because I can’t” and that was it. I’ve asked him twice what he meant over the past few days but nothing. So I started lurking around and I found out that he’s been dropping flirty comments and liking pics on this ones girls insta. Who lives by me. But one of the MAIN reasons he said we wouldn’t work is because he wasn’t ready to commit and a LDR wouldn’t work. Now I’m thinking he’s been lying to me this whole time. I literally just wanna call him up rn and tell him that we need to just talk and really tell the honest truth so we can move on with our friendship. Or even text him that. I think he owes it to me. But I don’t want to scare him away and I’m scared what’ll happen if I do. Help!!!

UPDATE: I ended up calling him. No answer. So I texted him asking if he could talk. No answer. I texted him asking if were good. Got many answers lol we good now