Just wondered if anyone finds DTD A chore. I'm on day14 so ovulation anytime now. I've got a stinking cold and my husband is always tired from work. He does have a higher sex drive than me but last night we knew we had to do it and it just felt so awkward and unromantic. Also as we normally do oral before hand but we can't now due to saliva stopping the sperm so can't even get into it that way. Any suggestions what to do when we feel like this?!