Does it get better with time ?

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now and things haven't always been great ... It's common for couples to get into arguments where one of us end up crying (me) but after a couple of hours we are back to normal ... But what happens when the arguement it's a constant thing ..? 
Have anyone ever been in that situation where you just argue too much with the one you love and feel like things might or might not change but at the end everything was still worth fighting for because you ended up happy ? 
I guess what I'm trying to know its if this whole argument cycle will pass and if anyone has been where I am and ended up living in a "fairytale"  and just end up with that significant other after all those arguments😖😢 and still love each other ... Please I need some feedback 😔

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It used to be the same with my (now) husband. After 3 years of just crap, I decided I was done and we took a break. For 4 months. We didn't sleep together or hang out or anything. It was then he finally got his crap together and he's now a completely different person. We've been together for 5 years now.

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I say disagreements are common ,arguments are unnecessary. If he is being disrespectful and insulting you then you need to put a stop to that but if it continues you need to find someone that respects you and cares about your needs and puts you first. My SO and I hardly ever argue ,we care so deeply about eachother that when one has an issue we discuss it openly and calmly and find a compromise. If you love someone you will do whatever you can to make it work . It's a mutual give and take when 2 people are together who love and respect eachother .

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Around the same time in our relationship my partner and I argued a lot and it started getting really hard.. But we faught through it and things are better than they have ever been. We haven't had an argument in a long time and are coming up to our 4 year anniversary! We are also expecting our first child and buying our first home :) 
Each couple is different but if you love each other you both need to communicate and be open & honest. If it's meant to work out it will :) 
Good luck & don't feel alone. ❤️

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Around the same time in our relationship my now hubby and I moved in together and used to have horrendous fights all the time (nothing physical) to the point where I was considering moving out and either just getting some space or calling it quits. But I hung in there and things got better, I think we both matured a lot since then and 4 years later we were married and happy. We put each other first and love each other so much and are each other's best friends. So there is hope. I'm not really sure of your situation so I can't really give you solid advice.

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The way I see it, your SO should be your best friend. If you're constantly fighting, then you're not on the same page with stuff. Figure out what's causing the arguments, and resolve it. If it's because you have different views of life entirely, then that won't resolve.

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When I get in a relationship I have rules I follow for me. As long as the respect me, dont call me names, dont cheat on me, dont beat me, and can communicate with me and love my kids. Then im good if just one of those is broken its a deal breaker for me I have had a screwed up relationship where he did all those except beat me and I wont stand for it any more. Make your set of rules and stick by them just ask your self can you live with it being like that? Can you be happy being like that?

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I had the same situation and we ended up great but my situation is kind of rare. If I had a friend in a relationship like mine I probably wouldn't have wanted her to stick around but luckily I had a happy ending. My hubby and I dated almost 5 years before getting married (engaged for a year). We moved in together after a couple months (too fast!) and the fights were horrendous. The first 2 years were a constant cycle and I never thought it would work out. We actually broke up the third year for about a month. I was miserable but eventually we got back together and he changed a lot! He was a jerk before and he just did a 180. He proposed that December and we're coming up on our one year and we rarely ever argue and he is so sweet to me all the time. I can't believe he's the same guy. It took a lot of work and maturing and we both but in the effort. I wouldn't wish that stress on anyone. We always joke that we got or 'first year of marriage' out of the way before we were married so now we get to enjoy the good part.

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When my man and I first moved in, we fought every night, it was tiny little irritations, and I said, I just dont want to fight anymore, and we found a better way, arguing is normal, then some1 has to apologise, I know we never in the wrong ladies, but sometimes love is more than pride *sometimes. And then a compromise... and you will find that an irritation is step 1, u can step 2 : argue, or apologise and compromise. When the fault wasn't necessarily yours, but we're due to your factor, obviously if it is him, then he needs to make that step, even running late, but it was your boss that asked you to finish something, you apologise, and you say, next time it happens, I will call you.

Does it get better with time ?

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