What is the most annoying thing someone with no kids and not TTC has told you when you say you are TTC

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"Stop obsessing or it will never happen!" Ugh. This person has no idea how it feels to want something so badly and try so hard for so long to have nothing happen.

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Wow...where to start!?!
1) Just be patient.... It'll happen
2) Is your husband wearing tight underwear... Lol ( my grandma she's to cool)
3) When you guys are "finish" lay on your back, put your legs in the air and stay like the for an 45 minutes
4) I guess its just hard for some people
5) Whose doing most of the "work" in the bed room
6) Here you can borrow this " 110 positions"...smh ( omg ....GRANDMA!!!)
7) They said Mellow Yellow lowers the sperm count....does he drink Mellow Yellow?
8) Girl get a Puppy!!! (My Sister) Lol

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So sick and tired of people telling me to "when you quit worrying about it and trying so hard, it will happen!" Eh hem....I have quit "trying so hard" and still nothing! What makes you think that I can get pregnant "not trying" if I can't get pregnant trying....TTC for two years :( frustrated

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Someone told me that. And at the time I was hurt and angry by it. I cried and told them off. But you know.... They were right. The moment I stopped trying. I stopped making it my life, it happened. Just take it with a grain of sand. It's okay to feel upset.

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When I was ttc my friends would be like "your still not pregnant?!" "Something must be wrong if your not pregnant by now" "maybe you should get checked out" "it was easy for me to get pregnant" God made me so angry that I just gave up and got pregnant the last week of July lol

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On the flip side of that coin. They may not want the same thing you want so badly, but it may have served them well for something else.

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"it can't be that hard to get pregnant" 2 people told me that

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" you have your whole life ahead of you" or "its not that hard to get pregnant haha"

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"You already have 3 kids"

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A lady friend who knew I had been trying for 4 years at that point (currently at 5 years and 3 months now) told me that thankfully when her and her boyfriend started trying, they wouldn't have any issues. Right after I told her I had been trying for four years...

Then another friend who knew I had been trying for close to 4 and a half years at the time said "wait until you have kids, you'll understand..." I kindly reminded them that all I do is wait. Shut them up right quick.

My ex husband told me I wasn't getting pregnant because I wasn't worthy of carrying his children.

Just relax, it'll happen

Everything happens for a reason

You're sick, you must be pregnant

Still not pregnant, what's taking so long

And my favorite was my father. After 5 years and 1 month I finally got my bfp in June. 6 of them. On different brands. Miscarried in July. He's very adamant that it had to have been false positives and I didn't really miscarry. Even though he saw the tests himself and was excited to be a grandpa. I think it's his way of coping, but seriously. Don't downplay my pregnany/loss.

What is the most annoying thing someone with no kids and not TTC has told you when you say you are TTC

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