Tips to make him last?

Question

So I am starting to get really frustrated with not only our sex life but my boyfriend. I only get to see him on the weekends because we live about 45 minutes apart. (My dad died so I had to move to heal)  So every time he comes up I always try to make things special for him. I make a nice dinner and have the house pretty clean (with two little boys running around) after we get the boys to bed we usually hangout and then end up fooling around. Well for the past month, month and a half, he cums super fast and then everything is over. He cums fast anyway but usually he makes sure I am either “taken care of” or has played with me a little but lately nothing. 😭 I have a high libido as is and being pregnant on top of it has made it worse. Master bating doesn’t help at all just makes me miss sex even more. I talk to him about it but nothing. I know he loves me but I just think maybe I’m just not enough anymore.

Answer

Well my personal experience is, I pleasure him till he finishes, then I give him a while, and go again, then we have sex the 3rd time around and then he last for alottt longer then normal. Hopefully you can find someone to help, I know the frustration of your partner not lasting.

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You can buy little rings that help keep them erect for longer and they aren’t painful or uncomfortable to wear if you get the right one. Another thing I like to do is to tease my fiancé by making him pull out and make out with me for a while before he’s allowed to put it back in and the control aspect is kind of a turn on for both of us but it reduces stimulation for a while.

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I had issues with my husband about that. He would cum right away. I never made him feel inferior and always let him know it didn’t bother me. He would feel like shit and for months he didn’t want to have sex, which broke my heart he was feeling that way. Some numbing sprays help. They will go from making him last a minute to 10, which is plenty of time for me! I just learned to accept it and have him make up for it in different areas :)

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Have you talked to him about it? Or just asked like before you get started if he can spend a little time on you with foreplay before actual sex/before he cums. Really, you can’t do anything for him to make him hold back. He’s gonna need to practice/work on holding back but he’ll only do that if he really cares to do so. Unless you like to be on top and when he’s getting close just stop moving or get off and let him calm down and then continue.