I like spooning with my boyfriend but..

...almost every time we do he has a boner and I often find it annoying. I just want to be the small spoon without feeling a hard... Well, dick, in my backside.

I've told him. He's aware. So he just warns me before we do it that it will happen if not already there so its up to me how bad I want to cuddle that way.

Is anyone else annoyed by that with their male partners? Or do they have that problem? I'm just curious how bad of a problem this is for others.