This is more of a rant than confession but I need to get this off my chest. She’s just a horrible person and if she wasn’t the mother of my step kids I would have told her so a long time ago. My step kids were just here for Spring Break. My husband and I had a daughter, their half sister, end of 2017. She sends her son to visit us with a shirt that says “will trade sister for pizza” and the tags still on it so she just bought it for him. I noticed it and definitely thought she did that to be spiteful because that’s just the person she is, but also didn’t want to read too much into it because I can be paranoid at times. I decided to let it go and then today my husband brought it up. He also noticed the shirt and the tags and had the same thought as me! So now I feel validated in thinking this was one of her attempts to be spiteful. The funny thing is that my step son loves his baby sister and she’s got him wrapped around his finger. He’d probably GIVE her his last slice of pizza if she asked and that kid loves pizza.

EDIT: I should mention this isn’t my only reason for disliking her it’s just the most recent example of how bitter she acts toward us. There are many many reasons I think she is a horrible person. For example, when my husband met her she lied about who she was, claimed to be in the military, and then a month later turns out she has a husband that had been away on a mini deployment. At that point she was already pregnant (because she also lied to him about being on birth control) but didn’t know for a couple more weeks. She also has told them to call every man she’s brought in their lives dad, she’s now remarried and makes them call her husband dad even thought they don’t like it. And she’s taught them to call their real dad by his first name. I respect her only for the fact that she is the mother of my step kids but as a person she’s got to be one of the worst characters I’ve encountered in my lifetime.