At a loss...

So my 3rd lil boy just turned a month old today. (March 21st) this is my second baby with my husband but first breastfeeding... Well this morning I was getting into bed to feed the baby at around 3:30 and my husband woke up just long enough to complain I wasn't supporting baby boys neck enough. He's been saying this alot lately even though I've been doing exactly like I did with my first. I make sure they don't try to flop back or anything but I allow them to move their heads to the sides some. I'm not going make them hold still completely. Idk just seems like he's been questioning me a lot lately. I've finally gotten him to back off asking me to just give lil one a formula bottle after breaking down one day and explaining that although I know it would be easier I don't want to just give up on breastfeeding. I know he's been stressed out with our 2 yr old and 5 yr old and I haven't been the biggest help cus I'm almost always holding the baby but I just wish he wouldn't be constantly asking why I'm letting him move around and stuff. I know he probably isn't trying to question me as a mom but sometimes it feels like he is. Idk I guess I just needed to rant a lil between the random thoughts of I might as well be a cow cus all I'm good for is my milk and then days were barely can go pee cus baby boy doesn't want to be put down and he will scream his head off when I do put him down I now my depression is kicking up but I also know my husband loves me and I'm alot more then just a milk supplier and that some day I'll miss holding him for hours. Heck I miss that with my older two lol.