Shaved and open for business?

A little background info, I’m 5 weeks post partum and my husband and I didn’t have sex the entire pregnancy. I wanted to but he was totally freaked out. Whatever, old news. The problem is it created a serious lack of intimacy between us. I like giving blowjobs, like a lot. But he didn’t ever really want me to do that either. So last night he told me he had shaved everything up. I was like okay. And he said he wasn’t talking about his face. That was pretty much it. A little later because he thought I hadn’t picked up on it, he explained that he was trying to tell me he was “advertising his grand reopening sale.” And that was it. I don’t want to make a move on this man because I’ve been turned down sexually for the past 10 months. I think he should be the one to pursue me. Yes I want to do things but is it so wrong for me to want a little bit of intimacy and to feel wanted? He wasn’t even sitting on the same couch as me. But he said he “isn’t going to feel bad about having the incorrect approach” when I told him that I was offended by it.

Someone help. Give me advice on how to reignite the sexy in our marriage. Please.