Old Wives tales

I've noticed a lot of woman on here giving what seems to be negative comments I will probably get hated on for this post but when your pregnant there's only so many fun things to do and some woman can't find out the gender of their baby until 20+ weeks we all know tales are tales but for the woman that have to wait and want to post fun posts about heartbeats and how they carry what they crave because they feel left out for not finding out what the sex of their baby is so early I feel like we should be encouraging just take a guess instead of telling them that the tales are wrong especially for first time mom's old wives tales are just for fun that's all