thoughts on choking?

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i actually kinda like when my guy does it but like i never explicitly asked him to do it? is it a red flag or a bad thing? or is it a bad thing that i find it hot or turning on? im so confused honestly. but like if he does something which hurts me i usually tell him and he stops.

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My thoughts-
This sounds like a conversation you should have with your partner.

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You should talk to him about it, but I also think exploring to find out what you each like is really important and as long as everyone involved consents, whatever goes.

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It seems like it’s one of his kinks, he must like choking you. I don’t see it as a red flag since he stops whenever you say so. But I actually had a convo with my boyfriend and told him that I’d like to try it, he did it and I loved it so now we always do it (he never thought he’d do that lol) but he actually likes doing it too. So if you feel kinda weird about it, just talk to him! It never hurts to communicate, it’ll just clear up some things between y’all.

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I love it personally. My husband does it once in a while as it turns us both on. I wouldn't say it was a red flag if you're consenting. This is unless he's being violent doing it. Sometimes my husband does it a little to hard as he gets carried away but I just tap out (he does mma so an easy signal to use) and he lets go

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Mmmmm love being choked or a hand on my throat.

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My man does it and I enjoy it. He knows my limits and respects them.

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I recently found out I like it. There’s nothing wrong with liking it but I still think you should have a talk with your SO about what you’re both into

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I love it. It’s routine for us and we have a name just incase it becomes too much for me.

thoughts on choking?

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