Should I or should I not? Is really the huge question.

I’m going to start by saying I’m 36 weeks. This pregnancy has not been the easiest at ALL. In and out of hospital, multiple doctors appt not just OB, horrible symptoms (not only that we think as well as doctor thinks she might be here before my due date. This is my and my husbands first child.

A little back story. We tried for years (5.5 years, failed fertility treatments, a lot of money invested, test after test, and still nothing also 1 miscarriage 3 years ago). So this truly is our miracle baby. There’s so many reasons why I didn’t get pregnant. (Thyroid issue, PCOS, diabetic, and ever since I was on BC it messed my system up so bad). My husband and I have always talked about trying again less than a year after our daughter is born. My thoughts have been everywhere. I was considering birth control after she’s born. My husband is totally against it because he’s scared we’ll never have another child. Also another thought is of mine is that I kinda don’t want to try again so soon I’m not sure how delivery will go or even the recovery. I don’t want to disappoint my husband. I’m not sure if birth control is the best option but also scared shitless of getting pregnant quick. Have any of you ever had a problem like this or thoughts? How did you go about it?

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