Getting fed up

So a little back story first, I had my daughter a year ago, and been a stay at home mom for a year, after she turned a year I decided it’s time to get a job and told my husband it’s time and he was okay with it at first, but in reality I think he thought it was gonna be hard for me to find a job. I applied and got a call for the interview, went in and they were impressed and I got a 2nd interview and got a job on the first try and was excited because that usually never happens for me. I was super excited and wanted to share that with someone, so of course I call my husband, but he wasn’t excited, he just was concerned about if it will mess with his work hours, which I told him I already told them the hours I can and cannot work and they can work with me. So now that I work I still make sure on my days off that there is a cooked meal, everything is clean, and kids are taken care of (I’m off 3 days of the week and work 1pm-8pm) So now fast forward to this week, every time I get home the house is a mess, so I have to clean it, there is no dinner left or made for me and after cleaning, getting my daughter off to bed, and can’t even shower I don’t have time to eat because I’m too tired, I have gone a couple nights without eating, I’m just exhausted, not appreciated, and just wanna shower. Right now I’m still in my work uniform giving my daughter a bottle, looking at the mess I have to clean, while my husband just went to the garage to watch tv, my stomach hurts from not being able to eat, and I just want to shower and cry.