Would you be mad if you husband/SO searched for an ex on social media? They had such a long history together. She was even pregnant at one point with his baby.

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I don't think it's a big deal. If you had a connection with someone it's not abnormal to wonder where they are now in life. If he is looking all the time I would be a little concerned, but if he just looked once maybe just ask him about it. I haven't even thought about my ex in forever, but a friend of a friend posted a picture with him in it and I realized he had had a baby. So I looked at his profile to see the baby. It has his nose poor thing lol.

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Absolutely would not be mad. I don’t even care who he searches, I don’t look 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Wondering what the people in your past are up to is just part of being human. Obsessing over it is a different story.

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Who hasn't occasionally checked in on an ex? It's really not that serious..
I'm glad my guy isn't this insecure. We'd be fucked.

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I've searched an ex before, because I still care about his well being, but we don't have contact. And I would understand if he wanted to see how his ex was doing also. Now if they started talking to each other and that happened often, that would bother me, but other than that I wouldn't mind.

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So you snooped and looked at his search history.......?

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How do you know he searched for it? I’ve searched for ex’s before. Don’t really know why lol but my husband and I don’t look at each other’s electronic devices...if you’re looking through his stuff, maybe you should evaluate why you’re doing that as well.

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I do it sometimes. Randomly I’ll think of one- it’s mainly just the one. It’s human to want to be nosy. Now if they hit them up I’d be upset. Buuut as long as they told me they wanted to reach out I dont think I would mind but who know lol

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Literally just got in one of the worst fights over this exact topic a month or so ago. I think it’s disrespectful as fuck

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No. Sounds like they had a long or important history together. 
I’m sure you’ve had 1-2 relationships that impacted you in major ways too.
I’ve certainly looked some exes up on social media before. Doesn’t mean I want to get with them. Just curiosity.

Would you be mad if you husband/SO searched for an ex on social media? They had such a long history together. She was even pregnant at one point with his baby.

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