SO said this and I’m not sure how to feel.

We were talking about kids. & he said if it had medical problems or handicap problems he wouldn’t be able to handle it. He says for him and the kid. That he would rather the kid not go through something all it’s life and be in pain. I guess I could understand them going through pain. But at the same time I couldn’t just give my baby up. I would help him/her as much as possible. It honesty made me cry.. I believe god wouldn’t give someone something they couldn’t handle. And if it was going to be horrible, he would’ve taken it sooner to save some heart break & pain.

I want to know your thoughts on this