Sick of being the bad guy

Jillian

I just need to vent. I know as a mom I’m going to be the enforcer. But I’m so sick of my child crying at me all day because I’m saying no and setting boundaries. But then dad comes around and it’s all rainbows. We live on a farm so outside is a constant test of boundaries, along with everything inside. I feel like I’m fighting a losing battle and I’m so exhausted at the end of the day. I love my baby and he amazes me daily but I’m at my wits end. Basically as soon as I say no he starts to have a tantrum. Anyone have any tips?