Boyfriend help!

Okay ladies, I need some tips and tricks. So I was having a convo with my boyfriend about how it’s not like how we used to be, how I want that affection and to show that you care once again and he basically admitted that “he wasn’t being himself” and that “he doesn’t feel the need to constantly pour his heart out to me or impress me now he knows I’m his” he said “I feel terrible that you feel that way I feel like I lead you on without the intention to, I’m a closed off kinda guy who is selfish and doesn’t consider his partners needs, I know what it’s like to deal with me but I can’t fix it” soo he basically suggested some ideas and here where I get stuck. Mind you were two totally opposite personality people. He is more of an introvert and doesn’t like social situations. And I’m more opposite. (9 months next week)

But how do I “stop caring” I was like “okay if you want a bad bitch then that’s what you’ll get” but he replied with “not a bitch. Someone who still cares but has an edge to her”

HOW THE FUCK DO I BE SAVAGE AND SENSITIVE AT THE SAME TIME?!

(Instead or suggesting we break up could you please share some advice.)

Thank you!!

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