I need some advice

ashley • My dream of being a mom has been shattered, I`m focusing on being successful and making sure I have a stable future.

So my husband and I got married in June and wanted to start ttc shortly after. I just got off birth control, so I figured it would take a few months at least.

Well I learned that maturnity leave isn't paid. And that really worries me because I make more than he does. If I don't work, our bills couldn't get paid.

I told him I need to get a second job and start saving before we start trying again and that for now we will just have to be safe.

Well last night I tried to have sex with him and he wouldn't even kiss me. Then freaked out on me about having to use condoms and not cum inside me. I ended up crying myself to sleep.

Does anyone else find the way he is acting is immature?

I don't think preparing and saving money before having a baby is a bad idea.