how do i politely tell my boyfriend that he needs to eat healthier and lose weight??

Question

so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost three years now. he is so good looking but he has gained about 70lbs of pure fat since we started dating. he eats so bad and doesn’t exercise at all. it’s a super sensitive subject with him and I don’t know how to make him motivated to lose weight especially for his health. I am a very health conscious girl and exercise all the time so it’s hard for me to understand. help!!

Answer

Hey! 
I think the best thing is to openly and respectfully communicate. Because you're healthier and you live a healthier lifestyle, your food and exercises choices may be really easy but it may be difficult for him because of the extra weight gain. 
Try cooking together when you have the time. Meal prep so there's no room to grab-and-go on meals and there's always portions. 
Try incorporating outdoor activities in dates and weekend get aways, if you're able to. Hiking, kayaking/canoeing, go on a nature trail, etc.
Have a talk with him about why he's put on the weight. Maybe he's depressed, anxious, unfulfilled or dissatisfied with something in his life. Let him know that you're open ears, arms and shoulders for him. You may assume that he knows, but he might have to hear it again.

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I think if you give off hints about going to the gym or diets.

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It took me a very long time to get the courage to comment on my boyfriends appearing mostly because i know I’m not perfect and i felt like who am i to comment on any flaws of the person i love. So i texted him when he fell asleep and let him wake up the the message and he replied back so understanding. You just have to go for it

how do i politely tell my boyfriend that he needs to eat healthier and lose weight??

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