My girls father promised my kids he was coming down here leaving at 1 he text me saying that he went to wash up and now his tokens is gone they were under the lamp and now he can't make it I know his mother stills and his sister don't like me from the argument which made me leave when I was living there this happens everytime they know he's coming to see the girls he stays in the basement where they go down to wash clothes so he can't lock it. So how should I feel if this happens all the time I know it's not him and it's nothing I can do but he promises the kids they still don't know he's not coming now so they can give him his birthday cards