Hello, sorry for long post. Just need some advise. So my husband and I will welcome our baby girl in the end of August. We are dealing with family issues. The biggest one being my mother in law. She treats me like crap and barely talks me. Little background i have an autimmune disease. Befpre we got pregnant we talked to the doctor about risk for me and the baby. Doctor said the risk were not to bad. Well my mother in law has told me multiple time that i shouldnt bring a child into the world with my condition. I let that go. Well now that i am pregnant I can feel her juging me. The other day my husband mentioned that I might have to have scheduled c section. Not that it been fully decided right now because I am only 17 weeks. She made a comment that I knew that condtion would cause problems. We dont let anyone come to the doctor ultrasounds so we have our own time with us two. Well my parents decided to pay almost 500 fpr me to have month ultrasounds at a pravite clinic so they could come and my mother in law could come. Well she doesnt talk to my parents at all. She doesnt even say hi. My parents havemt done anything to her. Other then yes they use to not like my husband but they all grew and now love each other. I am frustrated because i dont want to be mean but I dont know What to do other then somehow tell her if she doesnr get it together she will not be apart of my daughters life. I just as a mom will not have seprate birthdays or I will not explain to her later when she asks why grandma doesnt talk to grandma and grandpa. I feel like my husband doesnt understand that. I know he will be upset if i tell her she cant see our kid. I am just stuck and dont know what to do. I am tired of being stressed about it.